Within families that own banks, there can be a disconnect between parents who control the bank and children in line to take their place. Some parents struggle to see their grown children as fully-realized adults while members of the rising generation might view parents as out-of-touch and ready for pasture, having had enough time at the helm as primary shareholder or chief executive, or both. "I've seen a number of banks that had a great management team, but the dad was tired of dealing with the kids," said David Johnson, chair and CEO of Estelline, S.D.-based Reliabank.